You get what you model

One nugget of wisdom that kept coming up over and over again during the training I attended this past week is:

“You don’t get what you say. You get what you model.”

In other words, when you’re in a position of leadership (such as in client relationships), those looking to you as leader will receive (take in, internalize, try on, do) your walk, not your talk. Are you practicing what you preach?

One area that this shows up big time for transformative, healing pros is money. I’m going to lay it on the line, here: There are a lot of gifted healers who teach abundance, prosperity consciousness and Law Of Attraction, yet can’t (or won’t) get past the things that keep them from truly receiving abundance in their own lives. Unfortunately, that keeps both them AND their clients from experiencing the prosperity they truly want.

Does this mean that you have to be perfect? No way! You don’t have to get every “mess” in your life cleaned up before you start working your magic with clients. You don’t have to get everything right! And…

I believe that you DO have to get into action and work on your stuff. Most importantly, you must make a decision to get that stuff handled. In the case of abundance and prosperity, that means no more tolerating old money wounds, undercharging, or living in lack.

Your life is a work of art in progress. Remember, the transformation comes as you take action, not before you do. (That’s a phrase I just love from one of my colleagues, Helen Graves.)

It takes a lot of courage to say yes and “do the work,” but when you do, your clients will see it, and start to step up for themselves. That’s when the magic happens and true transformation can become next-to-effortless. And that’s a beautiful thing. Bright blessings and massive success to you…